We got an email last night from the birth grandmother who had contacted us a few weeks back and as suspected the birth mother has decided to parent. We are both a little sad, but also have faith that our baby will come to us through this process, we just have to be patient.
In other news, our good friends who we met through the adoption agency just got matched! We are super excited for them, since they have already been through a "reclaim" which means they had a baby for 3 days and the birth mother changed her mind. Ugh! So this is especially exciting to see them realizing their dreams of becoming parents. The wife of the couple said she's keeping the mindset of it ain't over 'til it's over, but I have a good feeling they'll be coming home with a baby in the next few weeks! YAY!
It's just a matter of time for all of us.
Sorry to hear that news...but I suppose at lease you have closure on the situation.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts go out to your friends; having a "reclaim" must have been extremely emotional for them. Hopefully, this situation will have a positive outcome for them.